Legal Issues

I've been asked how to avoid cops. First of all, I believe that escort services are not sexy for money. You're buying a relationship for money and it often includes sexy. I've written a Legal Brief on the subject. The difference between escorts and cops is that an escort will avoid any conversation that the transaction is sexy for money. A cop will try to get you to say that you are having sexy for money. If the escort is using the words "sexy for money" she is either very stupid, or she's a cop. If she is avoiding the words "sexy for money" or any other similar agreements then she's probably OK.

Never say the words "sexy for money" or make that agreement verbally. You are not buying sexy for money. It's a surrogate relationship that my include sexual contact.

She should also be paranoid that you are a cop. Most of the time there is a setup it's the client who's the cop trying to bust the escort. So you don't want to talk about "sexy for money" either. She has more reason to be paranoid about you being a cop. Don't be insulted by this.

Cops would better serve the public if they focused on real crime like murders, bank robbers, and rapists, and leave consenting adults alone.

One common misconception about being busted is that you don't actually have to have sexy for money to get busted. All you have to do is to agree to have sexy for money. So either of you can get busted even if no sexy or money changes hands. They do need to get it on tape though. So never say those words and she should never say those words. I think saying that you are experiencing "love at first sight" followed by a big grin is a good way to break the ice. You might ask her if she's experiencing love at first sight. A conversation like that would never occur if there were a cop involved because it wouldn't be very convincing in front of a jury. So if you can say things that cops wouldn't want on tape it tends to show her you're not a cop.